Every person in a world have a good or bad times in his/her
life either friendship/relationship, career, financially or other circumstances.
Its depend on your attitude how you face this situation, I am not sure if I relate
to you or not but generally during initial phase most of the people take it
bravely but broke down or getting depressed after sometimes which is human
tendency you can’t pretend brave and strong every time.
During hard times we are always in dilemma for figuring out
the ways to get out the situation or sometime we make lame excuses and blaming
others for our current situations. Sometimes your mind is full of worries due
to your current situation so u didn’t get any right decisions and most of times
you end up with conclusion which you regret later.
Now the question arise how to face that situation or do a
time management until this situation pass, I remember during my school times
when I get low grades I locked my room and stop communicating to outside world
and go to sleep once I awake with a fresh mind I will be normal, but time is
not always the same u cannot avoid situations by closing your eyes when u know
it will not work out on next morning.
Believe me or not might be it sounds stupid but it really works,
if u avoid your hard times either focusing on your worries u have to involves
in some extracurricular activities its really work to get out from this
situations.
Some people loved to listening slow music, reading books or
watch inspirational movies which might sounds contradictory but it really
works. There is a funny saying “My motive in life depends on the last movie
which I watch “I know no one go to cinemas after getting fired from office or
fight with a friend but I know after getting out from this phase you will be
more strong and productive to your work and life.
I personally have a habit to interacting with people asking
their personal lives and struggle which really strange sometimes but it helps
me to comparing my life with their life and makes me feel good for my current
condition compare to other people struggles.
Seriously no matter how bad a situation is don’t make it
worse by overthinking, Insist of worrying about your situations if you help
others which is in need it will give u
immense pleasures and provide satisfactions when u distribute flowers on other
life ignoring the fact you walking on path of thorns.
There is a very good saying by Chinese entrepreneur and
founder of Alibaba group Jack MA
"Today is difficult, tomorrow is much more difficult, the day after tomorrow is very beautiful, but most die tomorrow evening"
Nothing is permanent in the world so stop worrying about
your situations and make a new start, it’s never too late to live happily ever
after.
With Regards ,
Murtaza Badshah aka B@$H.
